Introduction

"There is nothing more beautiful in this world than to young people in love," he says. "In order that their love may endure, it is fitting that they recognize some of the great spiritual and psychological differences between them." He enumerates five tensions which are to be expected in every marriage but can easily be resolved. The first tension is this. Between wanting and not wanting love. You really never know one another until you are married. In marriage we take off the masks and see ourselves as we really are.