Mandy's book says that, statistically, you should pick three things. Sexually compatible, highly ambitious and emotionally stable is the first one. A lot of men want to feel needed because they think women don't need them. Being overly independent doesn't mean we don't need men, but it's interpreted that way. And se thatwe're leading with what we're not, versus what we are. I'll share my man. Ga, at persons space too. Not going to stress somebody out. Tanqeal as hell, elaxedright? No, willing to give somebody tons of space. Like a shopkeeper who has all these outside interests - where does that leave me
Does finding the kind of relationship you want mean conforming to an ideal of what a romantic partner is “supposed to be”? What if you don’t want to conform? Does this mean you’re not cut out for love? To explore further, Shan sits down with both Mandii, from the “See, The Thing Is” and “WHOREible Decisions” Podcasts and Khleo Thomas from Disney’s “Holes”; two successful and fascinating individuals who have come to believe that they are undateable. Not because of any toxic traits, but because their version of life-long happiness is not in line with what society feeds us. Listen in on this conversation as Shan helps these guests figure out what’s broken.
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