The Importance of Being Attuned to the Outside World

We want to gravitate towards people that we feel like are happy to see us. If you're in a relationship with someone that leans towards blue or is a little bit more dismissive in their orientation, then I promise you, you want to have like a motor cons all around your head. The default system inside somebody that's on the blue side is that they're not wanted. And so the antidote to that is to be so clear that you want them.