Is There a Difference Between Grace and Sham?

Shame is a way of looking at your past that is sort of like nostalgia and negative. And it breeds in you a self loathing because you're not that in that story. Whereas I think grace is something even more miraculous and mysterious, which is that God can take up even the particularities of my history. Even with its wounds,. And throw me into a future that I could not have imagined by the Grace of God to find the fullness of humanity.