I hit a depression. I was raising a family. At age 37 led me to travel to zuri to undertake analytic training. After i came back from zuric six years later, i continued to teach,. But then i slowly builded aalytic practice and been doing it ever so i want to come back to your move to zuric and your experiences there. And in your book, on this journey we call life, where you stood about lying these ten or 11 big questions that on some level we'll have to wrestle with. You talk about the significance of the questions that we inherit in our families of origin. For some it might be, how do we please the neighbours