How to Hold Spacewha in Real Time

In real time, what's likely happening behind the scenes is you are reacting from that threatened place. Our heart starts the race, and we're reacting from that threat based place. And to be able to do that really requires a space of authentic listening. If i'm over here hearing nicholl speak to me, and, you know, saint nicholls ip said about something, she has a lot to share. So if i'm actually being present and holding that space for anacol, then what she's going to say will have been heard. We need to express what there is to express. Usually they sit inside like a pressure cooker until we explode some day.