You can't expect someone to keep up with all the stuff that you're doing in your head. The inability to make friends makes every potential friend so much more attached. You take all that luggage from the past, and you dump it into this relationship. And when you dump it on them, it's too much for them to handle. So then they leave - now you've got one more piece of luggage also. Group coaching is a really good avenue for people to form relationships with each other that have very good, strict boundaries. Vocalize your feelings, understand what's going on on the inside, right? Bring all your luggage, by all means, toss it our way. We