One thing that we were very careful with was how we discipline the children, and specifically trying not to label them. So when they're going through their emotional and mental development, they have tantrums. And rather than labeling them as being naughty, or you're being very naughty today, you're such a naughty boy. Why did you do that? Well, I'll say to Jacob, not that he has difficult times very often, but if he is having a hard time, I'llsay that. Or I'll just get down on his love and say, what's wrong? If he's refusing to do something, and he's just being difficult, so what's the matter? You