"I'm always trying to find ways to be better because listen, I'm a hot mess," she says. "When we don't admit that, we're saying we're above everybody else." She suggests having tough conversations with friends and family about ideas you may not like. The author also advises people to use soft language even as they are being troublemakers.

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