Couple Troubled Couples - Couples in Conflict Couples in Love

When i first reading coupled troubled couples it was frustrating to me until i i discover the whole thing of outcome and process resistance. Most people with troubled relationships don't actually want to get close to the person there just there in the office maybe to tell you what a loser they are. This is very hard for therapists to comprehend at first because we're so idealistic about relationship problems. If you know at least one person who you deeply resent, that person will instantly become your best friend in the world.