Estrangement from adult children can be one of the most disorienting and painful experiences of a parent's life.

This week, Andrew talks to Dr Joshua Coleman, the author of Rules of Estrangement. They discuss:

Why estrangement has become so common
Why estrangement isn’t a one-sided story of parents who got what they deserved or overly entitled adult children.
Approaches parents can take to achieve reconciliation with children and grandchildren.
Techniques for starting a conversation.
Dr Coleman’s own experience of estrangement from his daughter.

Dr Joshua Coleman is a psychologist in private practice in the San Francisco Bay Area and a Senior Fellow with the Council on Contemporary Families. He has written for The New York Times, The Atlantic, Huffington Post, and Psychology Today. He has been a frequent guest on The Today Show and NPR, and has even been featured on Sesame Street.

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