How to Survive a Fetish Life

"I want to hear about how it went with your parents, but also for other people out there who maybe they'll raise kids someday who have a kink or a fetish," she says. "It all starts with empathy, right? Just like, just be nice to people. Don't be shitty." 'There's nothing wrong with that and there's no reason to be scared of that,' he adds. "'You don't need to understand someone to take a deep breath and choose not to be judgmental' is the best advice I've ever been given.'"