Bones regrets are a good example of the kind of deep structure regret that transcends the category. Among american college graduates, huge numbers of regrets about not studying abroad. I think what it tells us is that we have a fundamental need to learn and grow and lead psychologically rich lives. In some ways, these bolness regrets are a reflection of our knowledge, both explicit and implicit, of our mortality.
“Embedded in songs, emblazoned on skin, and embraced by sages, the anti-regret philosophy is so self-evidently true that it’s more often asserted than argued.” So writes Daniel Pink in his new book, “The Power of Regret: How Looking Backward Moves Us Forward.” There’s just one problem, he adds. The “no regrets” philosophy? It’s hogwash. Regrets may churn our stomachs, but they also improve our decisions and strengthen our values. They’re a photographic negative of the good life.
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