What if you stopped waiting for other people to be ready and started doing and BEING everything you ever wanted?

If you’ve ever questioned whether staying in something familiar—whether it’s a relationship, an identity, or a version of success—is costing you your true self, this conversation will crack your heart open.

In this raw and deeply expansive episode, Jessica sits down with Almost 30’s Krista Williams and Lindsey Simcik to explore the courage it takes to choose true alignment over old patterns. Krista shares the vulnerable, powerful unraveling of her marriage—and how walking away from a misaligned partnership became the portal to her truest glow-up. And Lindsey pulls back the curtain on how motherhood and partnership have sparked curiosity, alignment, and ease beyond what she thought was ever possible. At the center of it all, they explore the sacred role of friendship during life’s biggest pivots, and the gift of having someone witness your expansion and invite you towards your most magnetic self, even when you forget your own magic.

For anyone walking through a season of shedding, recalibrating, or redefining what success means on your terms—this episode will feel like a breath of truth.

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In This Episode We Talk About:

Upleveling as an uncomfortable yet expansive process
Writing their book as a cocooning, alchemical experience
Comparison traps and letting go of success metrics
The importance of emotional safety for feminine embodiment
Divorce as a spiritual portal to authentic self
Healing family dynamics and masculine-feminine imbalances
Recalibrating ambition through motherhood and partnership
Communal intimacy and in-person connection as soul fuel
Redefining worth and value outside of productivity
Feminine energy beyond bubble baths: structure, safety, and expression
How self-respect habits transform your energetic frequency
Human Design as a permission slip for self-expression

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Let Them by Mel Robbins
Expanded x Ep. 197 - EXPLAINED Divorce and Relationships w. LMFT Janelle Nelson
Listen to Lacy on Almost 30: Shadow Integration + Manifestation
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The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way.

At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity.

Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:
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– Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self

With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live.

Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.

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