"This is a weird ark, because we've gone from sorrow and longing and kind of waiting to go get into the positive side of that," she says. "Why are we so obsessed with toxic positivity as a, as a, u american culture, and now we're dealing with death and passing things on to our our children? Uh, the is is hard for me to reconcile in my my head." She concludes by trying to put a bow on the whole book but it doesn't really do it for her.