What Are You Doing When You're in a Long Term Relationship?

As a woman of color, being a nanny nam was almost the stereotype and assumption of, not only areou this, but you're for the use of this. And i think there's also a layer of em the cool girl conversation of if you're not like, obviously, when you're in a long term relationship with some one. It's not what we see often in media russo if you're it's strange to put my self in this mind's ed, but it's almost like going on a vacation wheres all this looks so much better cause she doesn't come with all this baggage, perhaps. But she does, you just don't know it, cause