Are You Having Sex With Someone Early on in the Dating Process?

Stephanie Coontz: Sometimes sex can drive the show, meaning it is the primary motivator for wanting to connect with to someone. She says if you are really excited about someone and then you have sex with them, and then theyare no longer interested, or they ghost you, or they disconnect. And i think that's just a risk. That is one of the risks of love,. of dating people, of having sex with people, the risk is that they are no longer interested in you. So some people ask me, how long to wait before having sex? And my answer is, as long as you need to to feel comfortable getting naked with a new person. R