The Balance Between Structure and Flexibility in Goal Setting

I think there's a delicate balance of like how do you introduce structure through things like planning and goals into your life while also allowing yourself to remain fluid and flexible in other aspects. Am I trying too hard to make something happen when it's not realistic or by wanting this to happen so badly I'm taking away from some of Like the joy or like happiness of actually achieving that goal. Yeah I think I agree with both of you like the best ways to try your best to not pressure yourself basically. It's like this is a goal that I have and when I have time I will do it or like work towards it but otherwise don't necessarily put a deadline on it.