Do You Have a Chaotic Home?

The pleasers are hyper-vigilant about everyone else, the vasolators really preoccupied with their own pain. The feisty ones at some point will take on the more dominant parent and even leave home at 14 or 15. They tend to land on the emotion of anger as the one emotion that they keep because it's not vulnerable. And then the chaotic victim is the more compliant kid in a traumatic home where they just tolerating the intolerable becomes somewhat normal for them.