I'm So Sorry That Happened

"It was very uncomfortable for a long time to share with people who didn't already know it," Lake says. "There's this look where theres like a dear in the headlights nearly, oh my god, what did i just do? Rity and and then often the response is, i'm so sorry that happened." It would feel incredibly ungrateful to say, ye, i'm sorry that thing happened too, she adds.