The Third Takeaway for Raising and Loving Cactus Kids

Rachel: What is your third takeaway for raising and loving cactus kids? Rachel: It's essentially choices, we're going to talk about it. I know a lot of people will just snist choices like, yeah, I give my kid choices and still, right? She says using choices as one way to take a break from external controls and move into power struggle dissolving strategies instead. The more you micromanage, the less self driven your kids become, she says.