Sommy: Did i say that abusive parenting and parenting werer sort of the same thing? Of course not. Nobody do that. And you don't disagree with it. So i'm going to conclude that what you think is me not understanding conservatism, is you not understanding what i said. You did. I conflated abusive parenting with just good parenting. Thought you actually saw that, didnt you? Ecause i talked about people who were good parents, and i talked aboutPeople who were bad parents. Is that conflating them? Now, the gram, the grandmother's story, i here's the problem. Let me give you a general statement for understanding me and everybody else