The Power of Shame

"Shame is a very destructive, toxic poison. But it can also be the thing that really turns us on," Dallas says. "It's like, who has hotter sex than the priest and the nun who sneak out into the woods?" 'I'm thinking about whether there's that we lose something, something un- uh, valuable when we lose shame,' he adds. "'A good erotic massage was more like chronic irrigation and a haircut' I need to get rid of this shame."