Being Understandd Is So Important to Human Beings

When you feel understood, its much easier to connect with another person. We're primed by evolution to be very concerned about being ted by our group. In we all have a very strong need to belong. And if i'm understood, then i don't have to worry about my true self coming out and and getting kicked out by the group. Whereas if i feel like the group really doesn't know me, then i'm constantly having to monitor and protect my status.