The haven model still persists in popular imagination, even if you don't have a house or a spouse. It's just this idea of a home that exists as a separate little dominion from the rest of the world. And like all utopian visions, the haven model had its authors. I think you can go back to the early middle nineteenth century, someone like catherine beecher who was an expert and wrote a book the american woman's home with her sister,. The novelist harriet beecher stowe, author of uncle tom's cabin.