The Importance of Validation in Relationships

On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Aella.

Aella (@Aella_Girl) is a public intellectual, Twitter personality, former sex worker, and wildly successful cam girl. She also did LSD every week for close to a year.

Charlie talks to her at length about Onlyfans, male psychology and her controversial opinions on trauma.

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00:00 Intro

00:36 The Difference Between Male and Female Seduction

06:23 Attracting People Without Being Fake

08:22 The Uncomfortable Truth About Male Attraction

10:27 Does Sex Work Satisfy the Consumer?

14:56 How OnlyFans Changed the Game

18:37 Dating to Impress Other People

19:49 Can We Ever Stop Wanting More?

26:00 Aella’s Controversial Take on Trauma

31:01 Sex: Spiritual Connection or Bodily Function?

32:23 How Aella Is So Open About Sex

36:04 Why Is the Step-Sibling Category So Popular?

39:51 Why Trans People Have More Fetishes

40:55 Where Do Fetishes Come From?

43:26 Dealing With Jealousy in Open Relationships

47:27 Aella’s Relationship Philosophy

49:22 Figure Out What Works for You

51:47 The Most Attractive Male and Female Body Parts

54:55 The Jarring International Differences Picking Up Women

57:27 People Don’t Realize How Common Cheating Is

59:27 What Increases Relationship Satisfaction?

1:06:20 Is OnlyFans the Problem or the Symptom?

1:10:57 Why So Many Young Men Lack Meaning

1:16:08 The “Mutual Dehumanization” of Men and Women

1:23:40 Charlie Makes a Controversial Statement