How to Have More Sex With Your Partner - Talk Before a Bed

You have to not get defensive and tell your partner, no, that's not true. You just have to be curious as to why your partner has that perspective. If my goal is sex, and it makes her happier and more connected to talk before a bed for a few minutes, I'll do it. Here's where the boundaries come in. And here's where you actually stand up for yourself, and you don't allow this type of behavior. It doesn't have to be pretty. Sometimes it does not sound loving at all, but it's effective because you're standing for your needs.