Evolving Communication and Responsibilities in a Dom/Sub Relationship

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Episode 69: Six Years in a 24/7 Dom/sub marriage

In this episode, we reflect on six years since the beginning of our Dom/sub dynamic. 

When we began this journey together, we were already 8 years deep into a very vanilla, and very unconscious relationship. And the process of integrating power exchange dynamics into our marriage has made every part of our relationship better. 

We had to learn new skills. Unlearn old ways of connecting and experiencing intimacy, and find a deeper, more honest, transparent way of relating each other in order to make D/s work. 

We’ve experienced such drastic improvements in every part of our relationship as a Dom/sub couple, compared to our relationship as it was before. Power exchange, and Dominance and submission, have led to better communication, relationships with ourselves, ability to speak up and express our true desires with each other, brought us closer together, reignited our sex life, more respect for ourselves and each other, healing from past traumas,  and so much more. 

Tune into this episode and witness how these power exchange dynamics have improved a marriage and brought us to new levels of intimacy, passion, and connection, even after 14 years of marriage and commitment.

Enjoy! 

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00:00 Introduction to Dom Sub Devotion

00:33 Reflecting on Six Years of DS Marriage

01:28 The Evolution of Communication

05:21 Building Self-Awareness and Presence

08:57 Trust and Self-Trust in Relationships

19:56 Expressiveness in Dominance and Submission

25:20 Taking Action and Letting Go

32:13 The Role of Dominance and Submission

32:49 Communication and Avoiding Landmines

33:54 Letting Go and Taking Charge

37:27 Responsibility and Ownership

44:04 Commitment and Trust

58:45 The Skill of Patience

01:03:06 The Transformative Power of D/S Dynamics

01:04:00 Conclusion and Gratitude