The Constant Questioning of Singleness

I think it's probably the latter because I feel like everyone who, like, wants something and can't get it or is denied it. You've... your card's been declined or you don't get a job you want, or you can't have children or, you know, whatever it is, you can end up interpreting that as a personal failure. Like, there is something wrong with me and if I could just fix that thing, it would come to me. And I think there's a particular shame, perhaps, for single women, or femme presenting peopleBecause all of our... all of the way we've been socialized is to be valued for our sexual romantic desir