Is There a Trap of Not Feeling Enough?

One of the obstacles is that twos, threes and fours, the hard types don't feel they are enough. So i need to live my life concerned all the times with how i am being seen. It's almost like a little bit of a set up for sadness. Whereas the bodytypes felt way more rooted, they felt more present in their physicality. Their locust was maybe too much on themselves, even to the point whre they could lose themselves. But they were focused just on their own like they were more certain of themselves.