Intro

In this episode of the Better Sex Podcast, host sex therapist Jessa Zimmerman is joined by Rob Kancler to discuss the potential for human sexual experience and the steps needed to enhance intimate relationships. Rob shares insights on how individuals often start with the wrong paradigm about sex and offers practical strategies to think differently about sexual fulfillment, connect with partners, and achieve true intimacy. He delves into the importance of downregulating the nervous system, using body intelligence over cognition, and the integration of ancient sexual traditions. The episode also covers practical exercises like 'belly to belly' and other co-regulation techniques that couples can implement to improve their sex lives. Rob emphasizes that sexual mastery can lead to overall personal development, enhancing one's life and relationships.

00:00 Introduction to Better Sex

00:50 Exploring Human Sexual Experience with Rob K.

01:20 Rob K.'s Journey and Passion

03:52 Defining Sexual Fulfillment

04:14 Theories on Sexuality and Orgasm

06:21 Masculine and Feminine Sexual Needs

09:39 The Role of Intuition in Sexuality

17:16 Body Intelligence vs. Cognition

26:12 Practical Exercises for Intimacy

30:37 Understanding Sexual Operating Systems

33:01 Unlocking Hidden Potential: Pelvic Work and Sexual Shame

33:56 The Need for Cultural Change in Sexual Health

35:04 Misconceptions About Sexual Exploration

38:18 The Path to Sexual Mastery: Programs and Processes

39:48 The Importance of Integrity and Responsibility in Relationships

42:02 Exploring Masculine Sexual Expression and Group Learning

43:31 Personal Journey and Overcoming Sexual Shame

44:13 The Three Levels of Sexual Mastery Programs

47:33 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

49:18 Practical Exercises for Couples

52:18 The Science of Connection and Entrainment

Bio:

Rob Kancler is an artist, athlete, entrepreneur, and modern mystic. He runs Men of Substance™, a sexual mastery program serving men worldwide. His revolutionary work gives all people access to the profound sexual experiences hidden in the most obscure spiritual traditions—radically expanding a conversation most people take for granted and revealing the blind spots about sex that everyone carries but no one sees. The truth is this quietly keeps men and women from the confidence, vitality, love, meaning, and deeper fulfillment available in every part of life. Check him out at robkancler.com, take the free assessment at bedroomcompass.com, or explore the foundational Men of Substance™ program at robkancler.com/blueprint.

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More info and resources:

Secret Podcast for the Higher Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/hdppodcast

Secret Podcast for the Lower Desire Partner: https://www.intimacywithease.com/ldppodcast

How Big a Problem is Your Sex Life? Quiz – https://www.sexlifequiz.com

The Course – https://www.intimacywithease.com

The Book – https://www.sexwithoutstress.com

Podcast Website – https://www.intimacywithease.com

Access the Free webinar: Intimacy Made Easy: 3 Secrets to Bridging Libido Differences: https://intimacywithease.com/masterclass