340 - Polyamory and Therapy (with Martha Kauppi)
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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Is There a Difference Between Individuality and Differenciation?
In your book, you actually discourage people from framing something as quite like a need to their partner. Can you talk a little bit about that and why that is? Yes, i think that it is not your best strategy for helping your partner be able to hear what it is that's important to you. We have language that can help us express something waigh deeper than i need this or i need you to do this. Qoo, isy language difference, or a difference sort of just in the language that youre using around that cas ye,. It sounds like ye, for the purpose of not triggering the limbic system unnecessarily. In my ideal world, it would go like this:
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