Relationships

In a healthy relationship, if whatever we're talked about isn't and isn't mutually beneficial to some extent, well then it's not a good answer. But we're in this obsessively, obsessively individualistic, narciss culture were it's all about me, what i want, what i'm getting and what i need. And and there's no sense of inrelationship of any kind. It has to be about some level of how my impacting them, ind this is mutually beneficial,. because this is a relationship, and that's like a different contract that we step into.