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How to Make Demands of Someone
The only real great relationships are going to come out of us being brave enough to ask for what we want. We should pay attention to ourselves and our behavior when the pendulum swings all the way to the other direction, because we are afraid. Being cool is just I'm insecure, I don't want to get rejected, but I'm going to wear that as indifference. It's knowing how to hold yourself with confidence and with composure in those moments where you feel the tension of your standard meeting their desire for convenience or to have it exactly the way they want.