You Have to Work at Your Marriage

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Marriage is not about working at it. It's about remembering, because back to what we said at the very beginning, that you're in this together. How to make a life together is really hard and beautiful and deeply rewarding if it goes well. And when it does go well, by the way, it's horrible,. I don't want to romanticize it at all, right? It's horrible. Bawthls, stultifying, degrading. It's bad. So it's a high risk game. For most human history, it wasn't a choice. It was a destiny. You got married. You had to. Most of us naturally see ourselves as God said

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Timestamps:

Roelof Botha: 00:03:17

Will MacAskill: 00:08:46

Russ Roberts: 00:14:02

Andrew Weil: 00:23:47

Tim Q&A: 00:27:54

Full episode titles:

Roelof Botha — Investing with the Best, Ulysses Pacts, The Magic of Founder-Problem Fit, How to Use Pre-Mortems and Pre-Parades, Learning from Crucible Moments, and Daring to Dream (#618)

Will MacAskill of Effective Altruism Fame — The Value of Longtermism, Tools for Beating Stress and Overwhelm, AI Scenarios, High-Impact Books, and How to Save the World and Be an Agent of Change (#612)

Russ Roberts on Lessons from F.A. Hayek and Nassim Taleb, Decision-Making Insights from Charles Darwin, The Dangers of Scientism, Wild Problems in Life and the Decisions That Define Us, Learnings from the Talmud, The Role of Prayer, and The Journey to Transcendence (#613)