Do I Need a Drink and Smoke to Talk to a Girl?

I don't think it needs to be so complicated. If she's somebody really likes activities, you could go to an activity with her. You gus can go photos of each other. Guy said he prefers f girls tex first and initiate the convo. Although i'm really bad at ecause i get like, panic when i text first. So why do girls like having deep life combos about the future, et cetera? I feel like most girls are very into talking about that stuff. That's like one of the most important things a guy can say to a girl. She wakes up every day thinking you're goingin to ask her out. Just get it over with.