What's Your Experience With Divorce?

My first marriage ended through an email message, a from overseas. My husband's job was the centre of his life and i knew that if we ever had a family, that that would continue to be so. I didn't want my kids to have the same experience which was that they were always going to be second to the priority of the job am. So i said he had to choose, and he very quickly chose and asked for a divorce.