i think the most important thing for people to do when they're thinking through traditions is first just acknowledge what is a tradition? What's not right? What have i absorbed through my society or my family or my friends that i haven't consciously developed a thought on my own? That's the first thing. There are stories behind it, andit almost like part of your identity because you believe it so deeply. So i currently am in a monogamous relationship. And i will say, a forty hour work week, that was easy for me to be like, ok, this doesn't make sense. I'm flipping this on its head. It becomes hard to dissociate from a tradition if it