The Importance of Including Significant Others in Christmas Card Photos

My family takes a Christmas card photo every year around big events like graduations or parties where everyone is together. Years ago my mom instituted a not until you're married policy to basically say significant others are not going to be in photos until they are husband and wife. My fiance has had significant issues with this last year when the family took photos shortly after she and I were engaged She directly made snide comments to me about how excluded she feels This year she flatly refused to drive with me to a family graduation saying how hurt and excluded she felt by this policy. Since we are getting married this year and the card is coming out the year that we are getting wedding end quote: "I've