84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade
Modern Anarchy
How to Hold the Reality of Both
I think it's much harder to hold the reality of both. It is so much easier to just be like, no, they're a bad person. They're horrible. That's why this happened. So, you know, fuck them and that sort of energy versus holding the duality. I would say most people do not feel better when they go on campaigns against others. You're never satisfied once you start trying because somebody still likes them. Like everyone I know who has done that for various reasons has ended up feeling more isolated. When some people won't participate, you feel super rejected. And then you feel like, oh my God, they don't believe me because they didn't
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