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84. Relationship Anarchy: The Romance Myth and Navigating Jealousy with Dean Spade

Modern Anarchy

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The Security of Open Relationships

I think that's the security that can come through open relating, right? Like it is inherently insecure because of the malleability of the dynamics and the flow that is inherent to them. And then I see less of you like that actually may happen. You may even be like decide to focus on them in such a way that we don't see each other anymore. Even if you're not really ships can end, we've all done that. They can say things change everything. But also for me, this like politically, this is about this relationship where like the state form itself wants us to have relationships that are pretending permanent Because the stateform itself pretends to be permanent. Yeah.

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