To lead or be successful is to be good at pretending os the same thing and not difference. If you're not in the pretending, and you're hangig out in normal by and lage, it is no place for you to succeed. So sincerity is almost impossible. The conditions for sincerity are almost impossible. And then wel what am i supposed to do with that? And i feel like a, that's a pretty big question, you know, like a, oh, that's not an easy thing for me to attend to. Well, then to feel safe, because there are parts in me and you and everyone that know this thing is not safe.