The Neurodivergent Christmas Survival Guide: Dr Alison Lennox on Family, Burnout & Boundaries
The Hidden 20%
Outro
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Christmas is often described as joyful, but for many neurodivergent people it can be overwhelming, exhausting and full of hidden pressure. In this special episode, Dr Alison Lennox returns to unpack why the festive season can feel so challenging - and how preparation, boundaries and regulation strategies can make a huge difference.
Ben and Alison discuss sensory overload, disrupted routines, family expectations, social fatigue and the pressure to “perform” throughout December. Alison shares practical, compassionate advice on preparing for gatherings, setting boundaries ahead of time, creating exit plans, managing burnout, supporting ND children, and finding small moments to regulate even in busy environments.
Whether you look forward to Christmas or quietly dread it, this episode gives permission to approach the season differently - with clarity, self-compassion and a plan that puts your wellbeing first.
CW: This episode contains discussion of mental health crisis, overwhelm and emotional distress, particularly around the festive period.
If you are struggling, in emotional distress or feel unsafe, please reach out:
- Samaritans (24/7) - Call 116 123 or visit https://www.samaritans.org
- Shout Crisis Textline - Text SHOUT to 85258
- Mind – https://www.mind.org.uk
- NHS 111 (urgent mental health support) – https://www.nhs.uk/nhs-services/mental-health-services
- If you are in immediate danger, call 999 or go to A&E.
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Host: Ben Branson
Production Manager: Phoebe De Leiburné
Video Editor: James Scriven
Social Media Manager: Charlie Young
Music: Jackson Greenberg
Head of Marketing: Kristen Fuller
00:00 Introduction
00:47 Being Neurodivergent at Christmas: Why the Festive Season Is Hard
3:34 Family Expectations, Routines and Holiday Pressure
5:00 Why the Festive Season Can Be Overwhelming for ND People
6:03 First Christmas After an ND Diagnosis: Handling Difficult Family Reactions
10:24 Setting Boundaries Without Guilt & Planning Ahead to Reduce Holiday Stress
14:40 Setting Boundaries Without Shame: ND Social Masking & Avoiding Burnout
25:25 How to Support Neurodivergent Children at Christmas
30:30 Dr Alison’s Top Tips for Setting Healthy Boundaries
34:42 Dr Alison’s Festive Advice for ADHD’ers on Medication
36:00 Alcohol vs Neurodivergent Brains
39:50 The Importance of Preparation for ND Regulation at Christmas
42:39 Managing Sensory Overload & Navigating Christmas Traditions
45:54 What ND People Can Do If They or a Loved One Are in Distress
48:03 Dr Alison’s Final Words of Advice: Q&A From Our Listeners
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