How to Be an Effective Person

If you're with an effectiveness person, sometimes it can feel like you're being controlled. Some of the activities they do to express love to you instead of interpreting as, oh, you love me. Oh, you're trying to control me. I see. And in fact, that removed feeling of maybe them being distant where they're just trying to accomplish things and get things done on your behalf is being distant from the effectiveness side. So if you're looking for the unpredictable moments to define romantic in your mind, then a person who uses a style might appear unromantic, but they're anything but.