How to Recover From Two Engagements Where You Were Not Sexually Attracted to You

Stephanie wants to know how to recover from two involvements where she was told that they weren't sexually attracted to her. I am really struggling with something right now regarding the lack of attraction. We don't need to be attached to the outcome based on the picture that we've painted in our minds at the guesswork. What we do need to do is show up for as who we are and start to pay attention to what it is that we trulyDo need to know about a person and about ourselves in order to proceed into a relationship.