You Don't Complain, You Walk Away

Don't let other people bring you down. If they're struggling, pray for them and then move on. You don't want to be an enabler and let that person keep coming to you by doing nothing but complaining. When you do that over and over again, you get to re program your subconscious and fill it in with things that actually serve you. That's when things become automatic. Even if you're not an instinctive person, you can trust your instincts because you've modified your behavior.