The Foundation for Narcissism and Narstism

There's a thin line between perfectionism and narsissism. This is why we, this is a lot of narcissus. The foundation for narcissism and narcisistic people is they want control. And anybody who battles with perfectionism will find yourself snapping at people who do not do it the way you want it. So i have to surrender to god, not the universe. I saw a post the other day, just surrender all your energy to the universe. Just render to the universe, and the universe will give it back to you. But the universe is not eternal. It's going to die? How about you surrender your faith, your mind, your will, your rights