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Why Do We Keep Saying Yes to Avoidance?
If you've been seeing someone for many months and they're still phobic of any conversation about what the two of you are or where you're headed, that is a sign of an avoidant. So why is it we keep saying yes to avoidance? I want us to exercise a little self-compassion if you identify with this. If we know that what's important to us right now is to find a meaningful committed relationship then I need to have a really strong internal compass. The lighter, more playful parts of ourselves are some of the most attractive. But I do believe that we need to get serious about what it is we're actually looking for.