
234. How to Stop Being Defensive
UnF*ck Your Brain: Feminist Self-Help for Everyone
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How to Recognize Defensiveness
i want to teach you guys, like how to recognize defensiveness and how to relax defensiveness. It is such a growth blocker. And ironically, it's one of the hardest traits to recognize in ourselves because we're defensives. We only defend when we think we're being attacked. So i'm not saying that without feeling those things, it's totally ok that you feel those things. No feelings are wrong or bad, right? I just mean, we can work on our skilfulness in receiving critique opinions thoughts, information from other people,. Work on our ability to hold and receive that without feeling so activated.
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