I actually think Jen is articulating the central point that the ego would like to make, which is I'm hearing it's not my fault. But it's not, to me, I would shift that. Joe DeRosa has a great joke where he goes, Jesus died for his sins and he goes, I didn't ask him to,. It's interesting. They're beautiful. Doug has a great, not a joke. He also says when you're in a car accident, chances are you aren't horny. And this is what I'm saying about your guy, the golf cart, ice cream shop guy, focusing attention and doing nothing deliberately can be an incredibly powerful thing. You